-THE
BEGINNING (in their own words)-
It all
began at Natures Oasis, when (Groom) (the produce-guy)
offered (Bride) (the deli-girl) a whiff of frankincense. The
gesture intrigued (Bride). The two exchanged glances for a
few days until (Bride) (the deli-girl) followed (Groom)
(the produce-guy) downstairs into the walk-in freezer. In sub-zero
temperatures, (Groom) asked (Bride) to go on their
first date, a midnight mountain hike, on an icy trail, in the middle
of winter.
WELCOME to
the marriage of (Groom) and (Bride). Hiking through
those majestic mountains we see behind us, under a midnight sky
filled with billions of stars and galaxies, a powerful force was
unleashed. It was a force more powerful than (Groom) was by
himself or (Bride) by herself. A force that was then, and is
today, more powerful than any of us here today. It is the power of
love.
Love is
life’s greatest treasure. It is something to keep our hopes alive.
It drives us to be our best and to help one another. It is something
that makes (Groom) and (Bride) more powerful together
than either one could be separately.
(Groom)
and (Bride), each of you gives of yourself, your life and
your love, unto the hands of each other. You do so trustingly and
openly. In return, each of you receives the gift of love and
commitment from the other. You receive this gift of love, not only
from each other, but also from the parents who brought you into the
world and raised you. You receive this gift from the friends and
family who are with us here today, and also from those who are with
us today in spirit only.
-VOWS
of (Groom) and (Bride). (Joining hands)-
(Groom),
“I commit my life to our marriage. I promise to comfort you, to
encourage you. I promise to express my thoughts and emotions to you,
to listen to you in times of joy and in times of sorrow. You are my
closest friend, and I love you. Do you take me to be your husband,
and to share my life with you?”
(Bride),
“I do.”
(Bride),
“I commit my life to our marriage. I promise to comfort you, to
encourage you. I promise to express my thoughts and emotions to you,
to listen to you in times of joy and in times of sorrow. You are my
closest friend, and I love you. Do you take me to be your wife and
share my life with you?”
(Groom),
“I do.”
THE RING
is a circle. It has no beginning; it has no end. The ring represents
eternity. And though our lives are finite, your love is everlasting,
a creative force that binds us together forever. These rings signify
to all that you are now united in a partnership of love and a
committed life with one another.
(Groom),
(While placing the ring on (Bride)’s finger) “In token and
pledge of the vow between us, I give you this ring as the symbol of
our unity.”
(Bride),
(While placing the ring on (Groom)’s finger) “In token and
pledge of the vow between us, I give you this ring as the symbol of
our unity.”
(Groom)
and (Bride) have declared their love for one another before
us. They have pledged unity and understanding, and to share each
other’s life journey from this day forward.
BLESSING
(Apache Wedding Blessing)
(Groom)
and (Bride), now you will feel no rain, for each of you will
be shelter for the other. Now you will feel no cold, for each of you
will be warmth to the other. Now you are two persons, but there is
only one life before you. Go now from this ceremony and enter into
the days of your life together. May your days be many and good upon
the earth.
(GROOM)
and (BRIDE), I am delighted to announce that you are now
husband and wife. (Groom), you may now kiss your bride.
LADIES AND
GENTLEMEN, I now present to you Mr. and Mrs. (Married Couple)!